Adoption, adoptive parents, Attachment

Feel the Love: How to Bond with Your Adopted Child

The best things in life are unseen, that’s why we close our eyes during a kiss, a laugh and a dream and bonding is no exception- you can’t see it, but you can feel it. Bonding with your child is important and becomes almost critical if the child was adopted. Although we know adoption isn’t… Continue reading Feel the Love: How to Bond with Your Adopted Child

Adoptees, Adoption, adoptive parents, Attachment, foster care, new fathers, new mothers, Open Adoption, Parenting, Support Groups

Older Child Adoption Guide: Adopting an Older Child & Parenting your Adopted Child as They Grow

Adopting a Pre-School or School-Aged Child There are special challenges present when adopting a pre-school aged child. Deborah Gray, author of Attaching in Adoption and Nurturing Adoptions presents ten tips for the first year of placement that we suggest adoptive parents take time to read and discuss with family members. Here is an excerpt of… Continue reading Older Child Adoption Guide: Adopting an Older Child & Parenting your Adopted Child as They Grow

Adoptees, Adoption, adoptive parents, Attachment

The Effects of Attachment and Developmental Trauma and Ways to Heal the Adoptee

With National Attachment Trauma Awareness Day approaching on June 19th, we thought it would be beneficial to write about the effects of an attachment disorder on an adopted child. Did you know that one out of fifty infants nationwide suffer abuse and/or neglect annually? Often these children are so hurt that it takes more than… Continue reading The Effects of Attachment and Developmental Trauma and Ways to Heal the Adoptee

Adoption Books & Movies, adoptive parents, Attachment, Domestic Adoption, International Adoption, multicultural families, multiracial families, new mothers, Parenting, prospective adoptive parents, Special Needs Adoption

December 2013 Book Reviews

All books purchased by clicking the link in our review will give AFTH a small donation from Amazon.com.  If you are interested in purchasing one of the books in our review please consider buying it through our link to amazon.com. Attachment in Common Sense and Doodle: A Practical Guide by Miriam Silver -Attachment is never an… Continue reading December 2013 Book Reviews

Adoption Books & Movies, adoptive parents, Attachment, Domestic Adoption, LGBT, new mothers, Parenting

May Book Reviews 2013

All books purchased by clicking the link in our review will give AFTH a small donation from Amazon.com.  If you are interested in purchasing one of the books in our review please consider buying it through our link to amazon.com. Instant Mom by Nia Vardalos -Honest, funny and honest Nia Vardalos writes about her struggles with… Continue reading May Book Reviews 2013

Adoptees, Adoption Books & Movies, adoptive parents, Attachment, discriminination, Domestic Adoption, multicultural families, multiracial families, new fathers, Open Adoption, Parenting, prospective adoptive parents

October Book Reviews

All books purchased by clicking the link in our review or going to our bookstore (see tab above) will give AFTH a small donation from Amazon.com.   This is US: The New All-American Family by David Marin - David Marin is funny, insightful, passionate and persistent. As a single, man he adopted three young, bi-cultural children, it… Continue reading October Book Reviews

Attachment, new fathers, Parenting, surrogacy

The Disconnect

Reposted with permission from the blog Spawn of Mike and Mike who created their family through surrogacy in India, using two surrogates at the same time.  They brought home their adorable daughters in April 2009. So we're in the home stretch! YEAH! And I, Mike A., am finally getting more an more excited. Now don't… Continue reading The Disconnect

adoptive parents, Attachment, Birth Parents, Domestic Adoption, multiracial families, Open Adoption, Parenting, Uncategorized

October Book Reviews

All reviewed books are available in our branch offices or in our online store. Dragon House by John Shors - Dragon House is a poignant story. Its powerful themes of suffering, sacrifice, friendship, and love, is a story that celebrates the human spirit, demonstrating once again that despite all the ugliness, pain and betrayal some individuals… Continue reading October Book Reviews